That's what I saw. I opened this picture and I saw a pretty young woman on a Chicago street late at night. It isn't as if I didn't recognize her or she looked different to me in any concrete way. But, I'd have sworn throughout her life--would still swear--that I've always seen her as an independent person and not just "my kid". And this...this isn't a picture of my kid. This is a picture of a young woman out in the city with her boyfriend and somehow, that looks different from 100 similar pictures I've taken of her or seen her friends share.
Has she changed that much recently? Is it because I didn't know she was in the city until she started sending me pictures? Because she's standing in front of a landmark she's never visited with me? Because it's night and it's a tavern she's standing in front of?
I have no idea.
But, when I opened this picture, I didn't see "my kid". I saw a pretty young woman on a city street at night. Somewhat to my surprise, that was a very cool experience.